tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9022773062490872911.post4004626555571150085..comments2023-06-09T03:05:21.253-06:00Comments on Erda Girl: Thoughts from the Mind of a Dating Failurezammityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13692249898826257258noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9022773062490872911.post-2340846147130978942012-09-16T23:45:48.885-06:002012-09-16T23:45:48.885-06:00My dear friend, thank you for reading. I haven'...My dear friend, thank you for reading. I haven't written in some time but just posted something today and came across your comment. <br /><br />I am 25 and still single. Still very much a virgin in all ways. The biggest difference between myself now and myself two years ago is a sense of ownership over my life. I can choose to float allong as driftwood or I can choose to grab an oar and actively change my situation. I do intend to revisit this topic -- and have written several posts about it -- but if you would like to contact me in person I'd love to hear from you. My email is zamturtle@gmail.com. zammityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13692249898826257258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9022773062490872911.post-31719513019943960852012-08-07T09:54:35.769-06:002012-08-07T09:54:35.769-06:00This is no coincidence. I am two years younger tha...This is no coincidence. I am two years younger than you, but I just ''casually'' stumbled upon your blog. I'm 24, and my eyes opened round wide when I read this. You see, for a moment I thought it was a joke. I never imagined I would find someone living through the same thing I am now! Almost, as your story and mine have some differences, but, it's mainly the same thing. A living hell for a 24-year old virgin, in my case, good looking-so they say-, smart and talented. Yet alone. And yes, I damn tried going after boys. The things I did...!<br /><br />May I ask, (as I understand this is an old blog post, and I am not going to read two years of your blog right now at almost 2am) how did you progress? I wouldn't mind getting in contact with you and sharing my story as well! And if not, then let me thank you for posting this anyway- you already gave me more help than I asked for or imagined to find.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com