tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9022773062490872911.post5753471381911002975..comments2023-06-09T03:05:21.253-06:00Comments on Erda Girl: Attachment Styles and Intimidationzammityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13692249898826257258noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9022773062490872911.post-5201983895163548422011-01-25T00:17:12.525-07:002011-01-25T00:17:12.525-07:00This isn't helpful to you particularly, but Ad...This isn't helpful to you particularly, but Adam and I long ago realized that we only hooked up because we DIDN'T try to date... he was an intense RM who felt like he needed to let them know all of his weirdo things (Star Wars, etc.) up front (first date). I was a total flirt who was always hanging out with guys, because I don't know what to do around girls. However, because he tried to date my roommate/best friend (Rebecca), and I got to know him by trying to help him understand her, we work great together. No one could have predicted it. Don't worry, (not that I'm saying you shouldn't try) stuff happens out of the blue. "After all that we can do" and all that good stuff. :-DHeatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03341155288891370532noreply@blogger.com